Tips To Make Most Of Your Interracial Swinger Party

Do your research. If the place has a website, have a good look at the venue, check out the type of people who go, what everyone’s up to at the interracial swinger party. If you’re swinging privately, meet the couple first in a non-sexual setting or set up a video call.

Revisit the rules as you go along. What you find acceptable will probably change as you go along and the more often you swing. Some couples want to do more at an interracial swinger party, others pull back.

If you enjoy swinging, you might want to move into an open relationship where you both give permission to have other relationships or no strings sex. Or you might decide you’ve had your fun but now want to go back to being monogamous.

Don’t take a ‘ticket’. A ‘ticket’ is a friend or someone you aren’t involved with that you take along purely to get in (some places only allow couples). It’s lying, you’re likely to be rumbled and it’s frowned upon during the interracial swinger party escapades.

Arrive as a couple, leave as a couple. Walk in together, socialize together, and leave together. Don’t just abandon each other once you’re through the front door.

Don’t worry about being nervous – everyone is their first time. Most swinger’s clubs are friendly places and everyone has a bit of a laugh along with the sex.

Drop it and find other ways to liven things up.

It’s not just men who like swinging, by the way. Men might be the first to suggest it, but it’s not uncommon for women to enjoy it more than they do, once there.

Don’t let anyone force you into swinging. If it’s not your thing, it’s not your thing. If you’re partner insists on doing it and you don’t want to, rethink the relationship. It’s a team event, not a solo affair. You both need to be happy and comfortable with the concept and reality.